Are you man enough to face your parents in law?
I have encounter case where some man are reluctant to meet the parent in law of their girl friend or wife.
Some of the excuse give are plain rediculous such as :-
1. There is no need for me to respect the parent in law
2. I am a cool person therefore i dont need to
3. It is not part of my so called personality to greet other parents cause they mean nothing to me
4. i am very busy man i dont have time
They may works as a saleman and greet hundreds of customers everyday but they just wont greet their wife /gf parent in law. sad case... i dont see any logic in this.
The most pathetic part about these type of scenario is their gf/wife fully support their action!!!
maybe love is blind. Perhaps they have money and thought by giving $$ is enough but can love and repect be bought by dollar and cents?
One day their daughter might do the same to them. It is call karma.
But all in all it is just simple manners. i would regard such man as no manner and will not be respect in any way by other homo sapien for their deed..
Imagine meeting your parent in law less than 10 time in their entire life!!!
Travelling and distance often taken for granted as an excuse but if they have time to travel to other place and go for vacation why not travel nearer to greet their parent in law?
The girls will often say it is his decision and i cant do much..but is it really the case? loving a man who would rather meet strangers everyday than meet your parent?
this is call modern society..where one think money is everything and by giving money is equivalent to filiel piety..
amen..
Some of the excuse give are plain rediculous such as :-
1. There is no need for me to respect the parent in law
2. I am a cool person therefore i dont need to
3. It is not part of my so called personality to greet other parents cause they mean nothing to me
4. i am very busy man i dont have time
They may works as a saleman and greet hundreds of customers everyday but they just wont greet their wife /gf parent in law. sad case... i dont see any logic in this.
The most pathetic part about these type of scenario is their gf/wife fully support their action!!!
maybe love is blind. Perhaps they have money and thought by giving $$ is enough but can love and repect be bought by dollar and cents?
One day their daughter might do the same to them. It is call karma.
But all in all it is just simple manners. i would regard such man as no manner and will not be respect in any way by other homo sapien for their deed..
Imagine meeting your parent in law less than 10 time in their entire life!!!
Travelling and distance often taken for granted as an excuse but if they have time to travel to other place and go for vacation why not travel nearer to greet their parent in law?
The girls will often say it is his decision and i cant do much..but is it really the case? loving a man who would rather meet strangers everyday than meet your parent?
this is call modern society..where one think money is everything and by giving money is equivalent to filiel piety..
amen..
Comments
Monetary - something i always chasing from behind, but it's damn concrete where even d blind can SEE it.
Therefore, dare to face your parent in law or not doesn't really matter, as long as you know the 'correct way' to show ur respect.
Golden advice for son/daughter in law out there, know your parent in law well and dun show ur respect 'blindly'..cheers